This is an update to the previous post. If you haven’t read it, go ahead. We’ll wait.
Soooo, I sent my wonderful mother-in-law an email and as expected it took her a few days to respond for two reasons.
1. She’s a just not that computer literate. Besides who the hell is really sending her emails anyway?
2. A close friend passed away.
Nonetheless, she responded with this, pulled exactly from her email: “I was wondering why E kept asking me what K and I were doing on Wednesday. I agreed that doing something with K was only fair and will do so sometime, soon.”
And she signed off the email: “Sorry about the K confusion.
I can’t help but focus on that comma between “sometime” and “soon” – there is so much to be read into that. But I’d much rather make her disappear with a snap. Where is my fairy godmother when I need her?!
Anyway, I could no longer keep this from my husband. Thankfully, he is as enraged about it as I am. He was going to bring it up when she called him Monday to wish him a happy birthday, but she had spent the entire day at the funeral. Not appropriate, I agreed. Instead, he figured, he’d wait until Wednesday, today, the day she was supposed to take K out. I’m still waiting for that call to happen. Any bets? Any?
Fortunately, K doesn’t remember that she was supposed to go anywhere with the MIL. And at this point, I don’t even want her spending time with my children anyway. I’m just so frustrated that once again she manipulated the situation to suit her. Although, I would like to point out that, according to my husband, she didn’t specifically say Wednesday would be the day. She said another week, or next week, or something like that giving my husband the impression that it would be today. Either way, she truly is a master manipulator. And still a royal bitch.
Stayed tuned for the actual conversation…whenever that may be.
Edited to add: It is Thursday. My husband did not speak to his mother as he said he would. No surprise there. What’s worse? He had the nerve to get pissed at me for asking him about it this morning. He said he was too busy yesterday. Bullshit. He said he was handling it. Um, really? You haven’t talked to her. He told me to leave him alone about it. Excuse me, asshole? This is my child too and we’re supposed to be on the same page here. Grow some fucking balls and speak to your narcissistic mother.
Really, she is the only thing we fight about. Bitch!